Most cat owners set up a home for themselves and then try to fit the cat in afterward. I did exactly that when I first brought my cat home. She spent the first two weeks hiding behind the couch and I could not figure out why until I realized the apartment gave her nowhere safe … Read more
The guilt hits hardest when you have been at work all day and your cat is staring at you from across the room like you owe them something. Most indoor cat owners quietly wonder if they are doing enough not because they do not love their cat, but because nobody ever told them exactly how … Read more
Most indoor cats are not lazy they are bored, under-stimulated, and living without any real structure. I noticed this the hard way when my cat started waking me up at 4am every single morning, not because she was hungry, but because the rest of her day had zero predictability and nighttime was the only time … Read more
Most cat owners don’t realize something is wrong until the couch is shredded, the 3am yowling won’t stop, or they find a puddle somewhere that definitely isn’t the litter box. I’ve been there I once spent two weeks thinking my cat just wasn’t thirsty, then figured out she’d been avoiding her water bowl because she … Read more